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Thursday, August 9, 2018

White Women Behaving Badly!


#BBQBecky
In May 2018, #BBQBecky (Jennifer Schulte), a white woman caught on camera, called the police on a group of black men having a barbeque in an area where grills are prohibited in a park in Oakland, California.
#BBQBecky
#PermitPatty
Just last week, June 24, 2018, another white woman now known as #PermitPatty (Alison Ettel) was caught on camera threatening to call the police on a black 8-year-old girl selling water bottles without a permit in San Francisco, California.
#PermitPatty
#PoolPatrolPaula –
#PoolPatrolPaula & Mugshot

(Reprinted from CNN.com)
(CNN)            A white woman the internet has nicknamed "Pool Patrol Paula" was charged with assaulting a black teenager at a community pool in South Carolina.
She allegedly shouted racial slurs at the young man and told him he didn't belong there, according to a police report from the Dorchester County Sheriff's Office. Days later, the report said, she attacked the officers who came to arrest her, biting one's arm.

The 15-year-old victim had been invited to swim in the Summerville, South Carolina, pool by a friend, according to the report. The woman, Stephanie Sebby-Strempel, 38, told him to "get out" and hit the boy multiple times before threatening to call the police on Saturday, the report said.
That part was caught on camera. The video was posted to Facebook where it has since been viewed more than one million times.

In the video, filmed by the victim, Sebby-Strempel aggressively swats at the boy's phone camera and hits him as he and his friends leave the pool area, saying, "How's that feel?"
"Get out! Get out now!" she yells. "There's three numbers I can dial: 9-1-1. Okay? Get out. Little punks."

After Sebby-Strempel told them to leave, the victim said they were "respectful and said, yes ma'am" and began to exit the pool, according to the report. He also said that Sebby-Strempel used "racial slurs" and hit him in the chest once and face at least twice. No racial slurs could be heard in the video.

The police concluded that Sebby-Strempel was "clearly the aggressor" in the "unprovoked assault," according to the report.


The story doesn't end there. When officers arrived at her home with a warrant for her arrest on Monday, she pushed one detective into a wall, injuring his knees, and bit a second detective on the arm, breaking the skin, according to the Dorchester County Sheriff's Office.
After that, Sebby-Strempel was charged with two counts of assaulting a police officer while resisting arrest, along with assault and battery for the pool incident.

In a press conference Tuesday, the boy's family spoke out about the incident.  "Basically, this is a situation that should have never happened," Deanna RocQuermore, the victim's mother, told reporters. RocQuermore also commended her son's self control and said she intends to pursue the case against Sebby-Strempel at the "highest level."

"No child including mine or anybody else's ever, ever, deserves that type of abuse or treatment or to be struck not once, not twice, but three times by someone that is upset because of the color of someone's skin, and they feel as though they don't belong at their swimming pool," RocQuermore said. 

Facing charges and out of a job
Sebby-Strempel was given a $65,000 bond by a Dorchester County Judge after being jailed for one charge of third degree assault and two counts of assaulting a law enforcement officer while resisting arrest, according to CNN affiliate WCSC.
 
CNN's attempts to reach Sebby-Strempel and her lawyer were unsuccessful, but WCSC reported that the attorney was not worried about the assault against the minor because there is "more than one side of the story on that charge." It's not known if she has entered a plea.

Sebby-Strempel used to be an independent consultant for skincare company Rodan + Fields, but after her actions, the company said in a statement to CNN that she doesn't work there anymore.
"After assessing statements from law enforcement and determining that this former Independent Consultant's actions violate our policies, she is no longer affiliated with Rodan + Fields," the statement said.


#PoolPatrolPaula is just the latest example
Dubbed by social media as #PoolPatrolPaula, Sebby-Strempel is the latest addition to a trend in which Twitter users are calling out white people for their apparent racism.
Just last week, a white woman now known as #PermitPatty was caught on camera threatening to call the police on a black 8-year-old girl selling water bottles without a permit in San Francisco, California. She told CNN's Dan Simon that her complaint wasn't targeted at any particular person. She said she was under a deadline and was distracted by the shouting coming from outside.
And in May, #BBQBecky, another white woman caught on camera, called the police on a group of black men having a barbeque in an area where grills are prohibited in a park in Oakland, California.
These videos are part of a nationwide conversation about black people being threatened and censured for seemingly harmless acts.
That's why another popular hashtag for the pool incident involving Sebby-Strempel is #SwimmingWhileBlack. It's only the most recent in a long string of mundane activities like golfing, napping, leaving an Airbnb and sitting in Starbucks in which black people have been racially profiled and a white person has called the police.
CNN's Paul Murphy, Travis Nichols and Kate Conerly contributed to this report.
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You have to ask yourself: “What is the matter with these women?”
It’s incredibly embarrassing that these white, Caucasian women have nothing better to do than make a mountain out of a mole hill.  But why?
Are they personally in any physical danger?  Probably not.
Are they racist as these three cases did involve African-American citizens, two involved children and one involved a group of adults…. Having a barbecue, of all things?
In each case, the women lost not only their minds, but their livelihoods.  So, maybe there was some justice or karma at play.  What these women failed to realize at every turn was that they are privileged simply by virtue of their race, being white/Caucasian.
Is that to say one should never call 911?  Of course not.
Should more thought have gone into things prior to those phone calls?  Absolutely.
We regularly see on the news and on social media about people misusing the 911 system.  Everything from pizza delivery to tree pruning to parking space arguments, and on and on.
What’s missing or going on in these women’s lives that they feel the need to call the police over what amounts to nothing?

It seems as though, in each case, the women might have approached these individuals and actually talked to them to find out what was going on, rather than take a more aggressive tone. Hey, who knows? They might have been invited to join the barbecue, or learn something from a young person selling bottled water, or horror of horrors, learned about friendship from two swimming buddies.  Maybe?



I feel like it’s more than appropriate to remind them, “Do unto others…”

Thursday, July 26, 2018

Number 45 and His Twitter Behavior – Not the least bit “Presidential”

It’s like caustic, explosive diarrhea every single morning.  Apparently He really, truly wants people, ALL people, to like Him.  What He doesn’t get about that, or simply refuses to recognize is that those “people”, the rest of us, have a moral compass inside that guides us and our outward behaviors.   

That compass tells us that His behaviors are wrong, hateful, spiteful, arrogant, pompous, patronizing, xenophobic, racist, and on and on.  Pretty much any and ALL negative things you can imagine.  


And yet, again/still, He wants people to like Him.  That would mean accepting and just generally being okay with his negative behaviors, including His hate speech and verbiage.  Dude, NO ONE, is okay with that stuff.

So, yes, it is perfectly safe to infer from this that He simply doesn’t care about your feelings or thoughts.  He has no reason(s) to change because, as He regularly points out, “I’m President, aren’t I? ‘People’ love the job I’m doing.” 

Let me shine a little light on that last part: ‘People’, as He refers to them, which would be His ever-dwindling base of supporters.  Yes, they elected Him into office, but not without much Russian interference, phony, personalized anti-Clinton ad campaigns on social media, and so on.  Basically, yes, He needed help to get where He is today.  That’s NOT “fake news”, those are the FACTS.

He talks a tough game, “They hit me, I hit them back 10 times harder!” Yeah, right. Real, “tough guy” talk… on social media.  He should be doing more of this:

And if you’re not clear what “more of this” actually is, let me help you out – Taking questions from reporters, ANY and ALL reporters, in front of television cameras.  That would be tough guy talk, not cowering behind His Twitter account.

Now, on the other hand, if you check His Twitter feed, you’ll notice it is rarely His official POTUS account, and primarily His @realDonaldTrump account.

And, you know, at the end of the day, wouldn’t this be a shame? – 



It has gotten to the point now, in August 2018, that Special Council Robert Mueller is methodically, deliberately digging through Number 45’s Twitter feed in order to find examples of potential corruption, obstruction of justice, and yes even collusion.

Carry on, Mr. Mueller.

The “Mommy” Connection


It’s an incredibly strong bond, that of a mother and child.  Unbreakable. Amazing.  Truly remarkable.

Having this little life grow, develop inside of you, is well, nothing short of a miracle!
I was there for the conception, pregnancy and yes, even the birth of my son.  I cut his umbilical cord.  His grandma, Alice, almost got stuck in the room.  She was over by the window, rosary beads in hand, reciting the rosary when the call went out for, “All hands on deck!”

The equipment started rolling in and Grandma Alice slipped quietly out into the hallway.
I remember we were watching Wheel Of Fortune, and the puzzle was (I kid you not!

ASK AND YE SHALL RECEIVE”.  Rather fitting.

But, I digress.
The Mother/Child bond is an amazing thing, one that fathers, try as they may, will simply never achieve.  The best we fathers can hope for is a loving friendship with our children once they become adults. 

Until then we love them, guide them, nurture them, hold their hands walking down the street and in crosswalks, remind them to eat their vegetables, and wash behind their ears.  (Moms are usually the ones who remind us to always have on clean underwear!)

My own parents divorced when I was very young, about 6 years old.  My father had some personal issues (“indiscretions” we would call them nowadays), and he wanted out of his marriage so bad that he not only moved across town, he moved to another state.

My mother remarried rather quickly, within 2 years, and our stepfather took us in, and accepted us as though we’d been family all along.  He provided us with a nice, modest home ( a ranch-style house on 2 acres of old growth timber) and just generally a wonderful, wonderful life.

My brothers, aunts, uncles and cousins, grandparents and I lost our beloved friend, sister, daughter and mother early in 1977 to lung cancer, just shy of her 45th birthday.
40 years ago this year was our last Christmas with her.  Every year at this time it gets harder and harder.  So many hopes, joys, laughs, tears, good times and bad that we’ve all wanted to share with her that we haven’t been able to.

She, mother, Mom, brings us into this world, shows us unconditional love, hope, encouragement, a guiding hand, a warm embrace and that gentle little nudge forward out of the nest.

Author, on left; my Mother, Barbara; younger brother, Dan, 
and older brother, Barney, far right.